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| Wednesday 15 October, 2008 |
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Life outside work
Sometimes I feel we live just to work, except for a few days in a year from morning till night we are either doing work/business or preparing for it. We can get so consumed by our profession/work that we forget to realize that there is more to life than work, there never seems to be time to do all the good things we love or should I say we do not make the effort to take the time out because we are paranoid about getting left behind.
There was a phase in my career, when I would start work early and continue to work late till night. There were times when I had slogged for 24 hours at a stretch. I used to commute at odd hours, basically quite early in the morning and late in the night, the traffic was so less at that these times that I could literally close my eyes and drive. And I was in this phase for quite a few months, for some reason one day had to leave office early, i.e around 7PM in the evening. As I was about to pass through the front office, the gentlemen at the front office asked me if I had taken half day leave :). On my way to home I realised that I was struggling to drive because I was no longer comfortable driving in the rush hour traffic. I was feeling so strange, it felt like some vehicle around me would crash into me and I was so shaky and so conscious that instead of focusing on the road ahead am watching the vehicles around me. It made me wonder how I could feel so shaky in driving through this traffic, because it wasn't the first time I was driving during the rush hour. It wasn't hard for me to realize that I was out of touch not just with driving during normal hours but many other things. All I cared about during that phase was work, everything else had to wait or was given a pass. Fortunately things got a little saner after a while and I got back to my normal life. It is important to have ambitions in life and work hard to realize them, but should not be at the cost of everything else in life. And moreover working at unrealistic pace and for long hours may provide some benefits in the short term but it is impossible to sustain it in the long term. One way to manage this might be to set ambitious goals but achieve them through pragmatic ways and with realistic time lines, so that we can have a balanced life.
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